Overcoming The Fear Of Interviews & Job

MentorMitr
3 min readAug 19, 2021

Do you get nervous about the very notion of a job interview?

If so, you are certainly not lonely. In a current survey, 73% of job applicants said that looking for a new job is one of the most aggravating things in life.

It’s normal to get nervous. A job interview is different from any other situation you typically find yourself in.

Very few other circumstances expect you to be on the hot seat and give a report of yourself in such a unique way. It’s no surprise that nerves get involved before a meeting, especially if it’s for a job you want and the amounts feel very high.

Unfortunately, that pre-interview uncertainty can really undermine your achievement on the big day. A bad case of courage can lead to serious interview mistakes, encompassing blanking out, clamoring, babbling, sweating, and fidgeting.

If you aren’t careful, the interviewer will be so distracted by your nervous habits that he won’t even remember your strengths and capabilities.

Though some feelings of anxiety may be inevitable, the bright side is that nerves can be organized.

Be Prepared

Preparation is the best way to withstand interview nerves, along with remembering that a certain amount of anxiety in a stressful situation is healthy. A bit of nervousness and anxiety may actually make you sharper and help you perform better. The problems arise when that little bit of nervousness becomes a debilitating case of uncertainty.

Intensify the Positivity

The self-help coaches are right: It pays to think positive, at least when it appears in job interviews. The job search can be vicious and it’s easy to get cynical — even the best candidates face reiterated rejection and rude manner.

While cynicism and resentment can be entertaining at a dinner party, these personalities can really hurt you in job interviews. Nobody wants to employ a candidate with an attitude problem.

At the same time, negativity can stave off you from seeing your key selling points clearly and conveying them well in your interview. Prepare and practice (see more on how to do that below) with the attitude that you can ace this interview. Fake it until you make it.

Don’t Give In to Desperation

No matter how desperately you want the job, remember that it’s just one opening. Your entire destiny is not conditional on landing this particular job. You don’t even know that much about the degree yet. Sure, it looks promising on paper, but it’s not your only alternative.

From the interviewer’s juncture of view: Enthusiasm is decent, neediness can be a bit awkward.

No matter what occurs, this interview will be a learning experience that will make you a decent job candidate and savvier experienced professional in the long run.

Relaxation and Confidence Boosting Techniques

Anti-nervousness procedures, including breathing exercises and cognitive imagery techniques, you can work out some. Here are some that we’ve seen work wonders for nervous candidates. One can try out techniques like power posing and visualization was boosting your confidence and self-control.

Conclusion

Follow these simple exercises and keep calm during the interview. Understand that an interview is not a viva asked in universities. Take the interview formally and answer on a positive note. Make sure, you send a formally written email to the interviewer.

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